Spontaneous Living

What does it mean living spontaneously? Living authentically?

This is the answer: living from the immediacy of your goodness.

This also means living by-passing the filters of the intellect, the mind patterns, our should-s or have to-s.

But what is your goodness about? This can be a little abstract concept for some people, that's why it is even more important to answer this question: What do I value?

Living spontaneously puts us in resonance with our being, with the life we are supposed to live, because we are by-passing all the learned helplessness and limiting beliefs that are contriving our way of living, instead of us choosing it.

Here's a little (and important) variation of the wheel of life.
Draw a wheel and divide it into different areas:

* Your Personal Development
* Love
* Friends
* Family
* Health
* Finances
* Career
* Spirituality
* Fun

Then, go around each one of these areas and ask yourself:

1. How does this area should/have to be like?
Write down the answer. This is what creates patterns in your life and they aren't probably yours, but learned.
2. What do I value in this area of life?
Write down the answer. If you can honestly find what it is that you value in each one of these areas, you are on your way to authenticity.

Now we can add a new definition to Spontaneity:

Living from the immediacy of your values.

Now go towards life's events, and as you meet people act from that essence, act from the core of that value. Don't think about it, just act from the immediacy of that value, embody it and move from it.

Follow what you really value and you will not go wrong.
Your true values are Universal principles, they are NOT whims. A true value leads you towards a better and a harmonious life.

BEING SET FOR SPONTANEITY

In life we must learn. Being spontaneous doesn't mean being an "animal" or never learn or improve yourself.
You should learn what you WANT to learn, and KNOW that you have to learn. Absorb it in yourself and give yourself the right time to absorb these principles. Then you should move out in life and FORGET about all that you have learned.

Why? The answer is simple. If you have really learned it... it is within you. Take the risk to take the first step acting from the immediacy of your values, by-passing the critical factor of the mind, and you will see that the next step will be plain and clear right in front of you.

Try it to believe it. Go for it, take the life that is yours to take, and that you can take only from the authenticity and spontaneity of your own self. It is there, it is yours, take what is yours...and what's not yours, then leave it to someone else.

To Your Success and Joy
Your Life Catalyst Coach
Vincent Sandee

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